black cats are wonderful because you can stare into the void and not only does the void stare back, sometimes it trots up to you happily and begs for pats
Photo of the Day – Preferring open woodland and savanna, the gaudy Lilac-breasted Roller (Coracias caudatus) perches conspicuously on high vantage points as it searches for its next meal. One thing is for sure, with plumage like that these beauties are pretty much unmistakable!
This amazingly detailed photo was taken by Rich Lindie in Kruger NP, South Africa
I wish I could explain this to allistics: I know it looks like autistic people are No Fun and Stuck In Their Ways with their ‘picky’ eating habits and their resistance to change and all. But if your world was full of carefully-concealed torture traps, you’d probably be a bit less ‘adventurous’ too.
Consider these fictional examples:
Oh, you want to go somewhere new to eat? Well, now most restaurants serve menu items which secretly have the texture of cold snot. Good luck telling which ones to avoid!
Ordering new clothes online? Now some online stores have items made from steel wool – that aren’t labeled! Hope you get one of the soft ones.
Going to hang out at a new place? Fifty-fifty odds their lighting will consist of billion-watt industrial floodlights instead of the more usual fixtures. Or perhaps they will be playing the melodious sounds of two-dozen colicky babies over their sound system. Maybe you enjoy gambling with those odds, but I don’t.
Everyone, even allistics, have a threshold of sensory irritation they just can’t ignore…it’s just lower for autistic people. My partner can block out the lights/sounds that drive me crazy…but she’s extremely touch-sensitive, so if I say “This input is just like being tickled”, she gets it. Have you ever seen a movie where someone’s interrogated under a spotlight? Imagine facing that while driving home, every day.
We had two mulch piles in the back yard when I was growing up. They stayed warmer than the ground for the whole year, and come September, they’d become Snaketropolis. My mother says that her memories of me as a toddler are filled with images of a wild-haired child with scabby knees and multiple garter snakes clenched in each fist, like some kind of juvenile Minoan goddess.
The shed in back was home to a rat snake. We rarely saw it up close, but sometimes I’d sneak into the shed and glimpse its shiny black coils retreating from a patch of sunlight. It would leave long, perfect shed skins draped over tools or piles of wood, and I would collect these with utter reverence.
God bless Mat on The Great British Bake Off for whipping out a genuine Victorian pie tin from 1850 for his Victorian meat pie to be baked in and saying this: