Me: my fish is being so cute! I’ll take a picture 🙂
Camera: wow those are some great plants you have there
Me: yeah but look at my fish
Camera: I love that plant
Me: my fi-
Camera: get that blurry thing away it’s ruining the picture of the plant
This is a didemnum molle, which is a species of sea squirt. A couple more pictures below:
Smokey wants to make sure you know she is a Big Scary Cobra
baby meeting cat for the first time
Cat person right there.
Look at that tiny rectangle.
this is arcane knowledge that the human mind cant comprehend
honestly what the fuck does this mean
“Don’t stress yourselves out about it, but don’t ignore the situation”
Morally grey: A character who does too much bad to be a good person, but does too much good to be a bad person.
Sympathetic villain: A character who is a bad person, but whose backstory/character arc makes you feel sorry for or sympathetic towards them.
Anti-hero: A character who does bad things to achieve a good goal.
Anti-villain: A character who does bad things to achieve a goal that they believe to be good, but is actually messed up.
Just plain annoying: A character who does bad things to achieve a bad goal but has one throwaway line about a hard childhood that is expected to put them into one of the aforementioned categories when in reality it just makes them annoying
awww your racer family are so stylish and cool and dark sunglasses are my favorite! Dangerous guys. And I wonder how they go shopping? KO knows more than anyone else about this? BB trying to get out of there quicker? Would be cute how does BB get out of the fitting room and KO evaluates it. What about Raf? He begging for computer games with BB?
One of the most frustrating things is that nobody teaches you how to be disabled.
Everybody teaches you how to try to get better, how to blend in, how to be as normal as possible and “lead a fulfilling life.”
But nobody says the important shit.
There is no
“Hey, fuck, you’re in a wheelchair and that just sucks balls, but you know what? You gotta fucking do it so here’s some things to make life easier.”
Or “Here’s your new cane! Congrats! Here’s how you use it. Stairs might fuck you up at first but let me show you how to make it easier.”
Or “Hey, you’re autistic, that’s cool. Let me know how I can help as your friend/family. I care.”
No one teaches you, actually teaches you about how to deal with daily life moving forward.
Once you’re disabled, once people know or once you’re injured or sick or diagnosed or whatever,
it’s all about pushing to get out of the chair, to stop using the cane, to blend in.
There is no help to accept your disability and move on with life working with it.
It’s always a push to work against it in every way possible and that makes it even more exhausting.
God, this! It’s always about trying to ignoring and deny our disability or giving up on us completely.
It’s like disability is the ultimate failure, even if they won’t say it.
No one tells you how to make accommodations or what accessibility problems you’ll face.
Disabled people can have quality lives.
But our lives are going to be different from abled people’s.
Our health is going to be different. And so should our healthcare.
But instead we are given the same treatment tailored to abled people, and that means it is going to fail us in so many ways.
This is also why “cure” culture bothers me.
Because if there’s no cure, doctors give up. It’s like no cure = no available treatment, because why try if we can’t get you back to abled standards?
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So. Much. This.
fuck this is so relatable right now
this is why knowing other disabled folk is sooo important
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