houseplantcentral:

bettsplendens:

houseplantcentral:

lez-b-pretty replied to your postNew plant caresheet on Houseplant Central:…

But where do I get them for cheap???

eBay?? Online carnivorous plant stores? I got mine from eBay but I’m in Europe, no idea how many sellers there are in other parts of the world.

Lowe’s has venus flytraps, sarracenia growing kits, and rarely nepenthes. The first and last are best purchased soon after delivery. The second contains a sarracenia tuber and a venus flytrap tuber, with the leaves cut off, which are not supposed to go dormant like that. They grow back just fine if planted and cared for properly.

Cool, thanks for sharing! That’s at least some carnivorous plants for my US friends. Now to find that pesky Pinguicula esseriana…

For pings, try flytrapcare.com. It’s a care forum, but there are lots of hobbyists on there, and people frequently have things for sale or trade.

PSA TO APPLE USERS

thurisazsalail:

i-got-personality:

booksbroadwayandbagels:

space-minivan:

sanders-trash-4ever:

space-minivan:

sanders-trash-4ever:

anxietywithclare:

mmk i’ve got v few followers but i’m hoping this helps at least one person so here I go.

Apple is coming out with something called ““Apple screentime” which will basically allow your parents to see what apps you use when and set restrictions and shit for when you can use what apps. If you are in a situation where you have apps or social media’s or really anything you don’t/can’t have your parents know about DELETE THAT SHIT before September 1st when this comes out. This works through the ““family sharing” shit on your iCloud account so if you can either leave your “family” or use a different Apple ID  or something. 

If you can’t do that, I personally access Tumblr and discord and YouTube and everything else through my laptop and the Pinterest web browser (yes that’s a thing) so if that’s an option for any of you out there join me. 

This may sound hella dumb to some people but like my parents would LOSE THEIR SHIT and ground me if they knew I had tumblr or really anything and that’s the only thing keeping me alive tbh so just be safe out there kiddos. 

I just googled this and it’s true holy shit

Oh my fucking god. Oh my god. I can’t let my parents find out about that shit or see my shit. I’d be outed immediately bhhbbbjdjd

The same for me.. I’m going to have to delete the mobile app and just use my computer because I don’t trust them to not limit me using Pinterest to get on here

My laptop is utterly useless so I have n o clue what I’m gonna do sjfjdjfjd

Guys, please, I don’t want you getting into trouble

I love you all STAY SAFE

I have some very important news!

I decided to find out more, and it is possible to hide apps from Family Sharing without deleting them! Apple themselves said how to do it, here you go:

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201322

Stay safe you guys.

NOT JUST TEENS – ABUSERS CAN USE THIS AGAINST ADULTS

lymmea:

furiousgoldfish:

terrifying your own child into submission makes you an abuser.

watching your child cry and screaming at them to stop and invalidating their pain and reasons for crying makes you an abuser.

staring at your child in disgust and contempt after they displease you makes you an abuser.

threatening to your child to take away their basic resources if they don’t give you exactly what you want makes you an abuser.

forcing your child to feel ashamed for not living up to your ideals makes you an abuser.

using slurs, hateful names and insults on your own child without any regard to what it does to their mental health makes you an abuser.

forcing your child to chase impossible expectations and making them feel like they’re worthless for not achieving them makes you an abuser.

acting like your child is a burden and a waste of space and blaming their illness/disability/depression on it makes you an abuser.

behaving like your child will never amount to anything and isn’t worth any resources and nurturing makes you an abuser.

making your child feel like they’re never good enough makes you an abuser.

if your child’s heart is hurting because they know no matter what they do and how hard they try they will always be a failure in your eyes, you are an abuser.

if your child can’t look at themselves without self hatred because they had to look at themselves from your perspective and all they saw is disgust and hatred, you’re an abuser.

If your child is struggling to believe they have the right to live and to be cared and loved, if they can’t stop hearing your hateful voice putting them down and using their every action to prove they’re worthless, you’re an abuser.

If you watched your child in pain and assured them they deserved it, you’re an abuser.

If your child can’t love themselves from how badly you hated them, you’re an abuser.

An interesting one from my own experience:

Convincing your child they will fail at anything they try, or that they’ll die young, because you used scare tactics like “do you want to end up a loser because you didn’t do (X)?” or “just wait until you get (disease) because you didn’t listen to me!” as a way to ‘motivate’ them makes you an abuser.

Using any form of negative reinforcement or feedback so recklessly and severely that your child internalizes all the negativity you throw at them makes you an abuser.

An inability to help or motivate your child into good behaviors without traumatizing threats, however indirect – and, likewise, a refusal to assess why your child may be engaging in bad behaviors – makes you an abuser.

Wait back up, Australia doesn’t have SKUNKS? Idk why people think of Australia as full of dangerous bad wildlife, sounds pretty good to me with no rabies (huge plus) and no Surprise Stinkers.

drferox:

I’m going to assume you like spiders.

The Redback would like you too! They love humans and human homes, and seem to preferentially prefer living around us. Their venom causes almost pure pain and they are happy to share it. Here’s a picture of one eating a lizard.

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Perhaps you’d like the Sydney Funnel-Web Spider instead? A spider that more or less is restricted to our largest, most populous city and can kill you. It likes to dig holes in your garden.

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Perhaps reptiles are more your style? Consider our Tiger Snake, which is not a peaceful soul content to be left alone. Tigers have attitude and will have a go when provoked, unlike the relatively chill red bellied black snakes.

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Also around our homes we also have the notorious Magpie, aka murder bird, which is not really as bad as the internet makes them out to be unless you’ve bothered them previously, but they can do significant damage divebombing your skull if they decide to.

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Like birds? The cassowary probably should be a cryptid, but this dinosaur who didn’t get the message really exists, and will trample your organs. It eats fruit.

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On the topic of large herbivores, red kangaroos are as big as ours come. They will eviscerate dogs and humans that get too close, and will total a car in a crash. Do not approach a red kangaroo hit by your car unless you are sure it’s dead.

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If you’re interested in something a little more legendary, we have the Razorback pigs. These are not cryptids, they are large enough up north to start eating cattle.

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But of course, they’re not the biggest snout at the dinner table.

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And I haven’t even talked about what’s in the water.

Man, skunks aren’t even dangerous! They’re just unpleasant to piss off. Usually the only time you smell one is if it’s been hit on the road. If you meet a skunk, just be chill and keep going on your way, it’ll probably do the same thing.

Rabies is scary as Fuck, but we can fix someone who’s been bitten by a rabid animal with rabies vaccines. We cannot fix someone who was bitten by most of the above with, well, anything. 

Okay, but Bracer has absolutely made a few of the Cybertronian version of those videos where hot buff people crush watermelons between their thighs. He’s good at it, too. Looks incredibly focused and intent on what he’s doing, bites his lip all cute, and then spreads his thighs and looks up at the camera with this thoroughly pleased expression. If you’re into that, it’s hot as slag. If you aren’t… it’s probably still pretty tasty.