This is the fucking reason for my disorder
IF YALL SEE THIS PLEASE REBLOG IT
Never not reblogging
please don’t, theres nothing sadder than a child refusing to have desert because of their weight
FUCKING. PREACH.
i cannot tell you how much this affects a child’s self esteem!! you may see it as a small joke or suggestion, but after years of being called a heffer and/or hearing “well maybe a little walking would help you out” i can personally confirm that those “jokes” are never funny and lead to frighteningly low self esteem and self hatred. please be mindful of your words and how they will be perceived!! especially with children (and teens)(and anyone with a pulse honestly)!!
In addition: Don’t tell a child who’s at a perfectly normal and healthy weight how “skinny” and pretty they are! Stop projecting your own body weight insecurities onto your children! You’re an adult! Comparing a childs body to yours ain’t working anyway so stop that shit or your child will end up always wanting to maintain that “skinny look” when they’re older and they will start to starve themselves in order to be as skinny as they used to be!!