inatodomutual:

Sex is not a chore! Sex is not something you have to do to make your partner happy! Sex is something you do only and ONLY if you want to do it. Never treat sex like a must, never think that you have to have sex with someone just for them, this shit is serious and traumatizing. 

Especially don’t go around saying it’s okay to have sex to please the partner if you don’t want to! You are spitting really harmful and traumatizing rethoric – with, by the way, is what people have been saying to women forever, that we cannot enjoy sex and should have it only to please our male partners.

If I catch any of you asshole saying that shit to my face in going to personally smack you into the stratosphere.

STOP! TELLING! PEOPLE! TO! HAVE! UNWANTED! SEX!