marlinsandthetrout:

THIS IS BDSM: 
Partner 1: I get sexual gratification out of being hurt. Please hurt me!
Partner 2: Okay, but I need you to let me know if it gets to be too much or if you want to stop, we need to agree on what we’re doing, I need to know your limits, what you’re willing and not willing to do, and we need to have a safeword. If you ask me to stop I will stop immediately and we’ll talk it over. 

THIS IS ABUSE:
Partner 1: Please don’t hurt me!
Partner 2: I will do whatever I want and I don’t care how it’s affecting you.

…DO Y’ALL SEE THE DIFFERENCE?