thefrozenrose:

marsinlibra:

violent-darts:

zorohime:

Straight people know that you’re supposed to like your partner right? Like enjoy them as another human being?

There are times I seriously wonder. 

A lot of straight women don’t know that, tbh

They know the man is supposed to enjoy them, but they don’t often consider what they want–and when they do, they usually stick to preferences they can choose, like participating in a subculture together, rather than the man’s actual personal qualities. The bar for how he treats her is only as high as how the men around her have treated her for her whole life. And men don’t treat women very well at all

And a lot of women don’t know that

There’s a lot of pressure to “just give him a chance” and “appreciate the fact he likes you” as if a man’s interest is something valuable.

DINGDINGDING we have a winner