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The reddest of all flags ladies and gentlemen

YIIIIIIIIKESSSSSSSS

If your boyfriend, girlfriend, or even just an overly protective friend says anything like this to you in response to you going out, please dump them immediately. They will argue with you, they will be hurt that you don’t appreciate how much they care, they will have some reason you make them act like that, they may even have a sob story about being cheated on or having trust issues that makes you feel sorry for them or guilty. Don’t listen to any of it, and walk away immediately. They will absolutely go off the deep end and try to get you back with apologies and threats to you or themselves. Do not listen to it, tell people what’s going on, and cut off all contact. This is not loving, caring behaviour, this is dangerous manipulation.

This is emotional abuse. It is not caring, it is controlling. If someone acts like this with you, get out of the relationship as quickly and safely as possible.

if anyone does this, run. parents, so, sibling, whatever run.

Seriously guys. This is a huge controlling red flag.