(#1) Okay, so I need to share a cute story. It’s going to be long though. I came out as trans at work a little while ago and they know I’ve been seeing men so a while back we had an after work where we got pretty drunk and one of my friends very respectfully asked me if he could ask me some question regarding my genderidenty. I said fire away cause I feel it’s better they ask me than rumors start going around, so: his question was whether or not I’m gay since I’ve dated med. I said no,

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(#2) I’ve always been bi. Okay, fair enough he said. Then: how do you know that you’re bi? I looked at him for a while before the penny dropped and I asked him back: are you unsure? He went on the defense and started saying stuff like: No, no, no I’m totally straight, very much so. And I was like, yeah, sure you are sweetie but I left it at that for the moment. A couple of weeks later he came and asked me if he could buy me lunch and we could talk. I said yes, and when we sat there he said:

(#3) ‘I think you were right. I’ve never cared about genders but I’m kind of scared of what that implies. Do I need to start having sex? Because I don’t like having sex.’ This led me into a long and complicated description about pan, bi and ace. He realized panromantic ace fit him perfectly and he looked so damn happy about it I just wanted to hug him. So I did. And that’s the story of how I helped a confused 30 y/o man with his sexuality and got myself a boyfriend in the process.

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